Getting Girls is Easy, Actually.

As someone who writes and makes videos about dating I understand better than almost anyone dating can seem super complicated. Truthfully it isn’t though.

If you’re struggling in dating right now there’s really only 2 things you can do about it.

1. Make yourself more attractive.

2. Meet more women.

That’s it. It’s really not that complicated.

I personally find everything surrounding dating super interesting, and therefore spend hours a day researching the exact specifics of the dating market, but if you just want more success with women the small details aren’t really important.

You just need to constantly work on the 2 points of leverage, what percentage of the time people like you and how many do you meet.

Becoming More Attractive

The easiest way to become more attractive is to improve your physical appearance. As much as it might not be common consensus, it’s significantly easier to improve your appearance than it is your social skills, income, personality, or intelligence. Improving your physical appearance will also make a bigger difference than improving any of those things.

The biggest difference makers in your physical appearance that you can actually have a substantial impact on are…

• Bodyfat percentage

• Muscle mass

• Hair style

• Hairline/level of balding

• Facial hair

• Facial Bloat

• Fashion/wardrobe

The average guy will add 1-1.5 points out of 10 to his appearance by just maximizing these, which should approximately 5x the percentage of women that find you attractive.

Meet More Women

There’s so many ways to meet women in 2024 it can almost seem overwhelming, but every-way to meet women falls into one of these 4 categories.

A quick summary of each -

• Warm Outreach - Asking out people you already know or asking people you already know to set you up with someone - (medium)

• Cold Outreach - Meeting strangers, whether at a bar, on instagram, or at the grocery store - (hard)

• Build a Following - Get famous or a large amount of social status so women reach out to you - (very hard)

• Paid Systems - Paying a person or company to set you up with or place you in front of women, online dating, speed dating, etc. - (easy)

If you want I more in-depth guide on the core four I already made a video about it you can check out here.

That’s it.

It’s really not that difficult, as long as you do your best to max out both aspects of your life you should find someone in no time.

As far as which one you should focus on I have an article explaining exactly where you should put your efforts depending on your life situation here.

And that’s it. This isn’t a long article because it really isn’t that complicated, so get out there and I’ll see you next Thursday.