The Best Places to Meet Women in 2024

Why are you still Sexless & Single?

If you don’t have the dating life you want, whether that be a lack of casual partners or a lack of a relationship, it always comes down to one or more of these three things.

3 PILLARS of DATING SUCCESS
Your Appearance
Your Social Skills
The Amount of Women You Meet

The process for meeting women goes as follows…

and as you can see the first step and therefore the most important is finding women you’re attracted to you can contact.

How to Triple You’re Dating Results in One Simple Step

Are you ready? This Single tip, if followed, will triple you’re dating success guaranteed.

Meet three times as many women each week as you do currently. No life-threatening surgeries, health-ruining steroids, or years of grinding to potentially get a blue checkmark involved.

This seems obvious and yet most guys I talk to about their dating life start talking about significantly more drastic measures before just re-evaluating how they can meet more women.

The Harsh Truth is…

you probably need to do more than triple the amount of women you’re meeting. Most guys I talk to meet genuinely less than 3 new women a week.

Simply put, this isn’t close to enough women to meet ‘your dream girl’ at any speed. It could be literal years before you find a girl you’d be happy to date who would be happy to date you. Why don’t we just find you one in a couple of months so you can worry about other stuff?

The Two Kinds of Locations You Meet Women At

The specific place you look to meet women will depend on your age, skill set, and the type of girl you’re looking for but they will all fall into one of these two categories.

Sexually Uncompetitive - The primary objective of the majority of people in the environment is to do something other than meet people for sexual/romantic purposes.
Examples: Classroom, Office, Gym, Library, Coffee Shop, Mall

Sexually Competitive - The primary objective of the majority of people in the environment is to meet people for sexual/romantic purposes.
Examples: Bars, Clubs, Parties, Dating Apps, Dating Events

Both can be great places to meet women. They both come with their own positives & negatives which I will go into, but keep in mind I recommend you utilize both to at least a small extent.

Exactly Where to Meet Your Soon To Be Romantic Partner

Hobby-Based Sexually Uncompetitive Locations

When picking a hobby-based location you should keep in mind any location based around a hobby will give you bonus points if you’re good at the hobby. Girls will ask for help at that thing assuming you're friendly(and preferably good-looking), and you’ll likely get a boost in status due to your competency in your mutual interest. Because of this, you will be given an advantage dating-wise(as well as just have more fun) if you pick one you’re better at/interested in.

The optimal way to utilize hobby-based sexually uncompetitive environments is actually not to hit on the women you meet there. It’s to get referrals.

By consistently attending a location with reoccurring women and you act friendly and helpful towards them you’ll begin to make friends. If you ask properly they will be perfectly willing to set you up with someone.

Group Fitness Classes

Whether it be yoga, pilates, or soul cycle nearly every group fitness class is dominated by women. Men tend to see fitness as a personal journey and stay away from group classes, whereas women see it as an excuse to socialize. By the nature of it being fitness-based most girls in these classes will be into in-shape guys, meaning being in shape will help a ton. If you are this can be a great option for you.

Dance Classes

This one is a classic most people have heard of, but that’s cause it’s true, dance classes are largely women. In every hobby-based activity how good you are is important but this is especially important in dance classes as the women will want to dance with good dancers who won’t mess up.

Feminine Art Classes

This will depend on the city you live in and what the women in your city are into but drama, pottery, painting, knitting, etc. can all be great places to meet women. These classes are usually largely women and if you’re good you can really play the helpful angle to make friends.

Direct-Response Sexually Uncompetitive Locations

Unlike hobby-based locations, direct-response locations don’t have the same people attend consistently so the ‘make friends and ask for referral strategy’ is significantly less effective. In these locations, I recommend the direct approach strategy.

I’ll admit I’m not a cold approach expert but I do understand and have got results from the basics.

At the locations below I recommend you just go up to the girls you think are attractive and let them know. Being good-looking will be more of an advantage here than in the hobby-based locations but not as much as in sexually competitive environments.

College/University

This one is pretty vague but I think it’s something you need to understand if you’re at college age or soon to be at college age. This is the location where I had the best success rate approaching women. College is in my opinion the easiest place to meet women for 99% of men this age. Whether it be the coffee shop, library, or just the streets on campus, it’s the best place to meet women if you're part of a University/College. Financially I think college is a bad option for the majority of people but dating-wise it remains untouchable for men of this age group. If you are older than this, although it can work, it will be a lot tougher than you imagine it to be, in my experience girls this age don’t like dating guys more than 3 years older than them.

Malls

This is the place I’ve approached the most women of any Uncompetitive environment. You can find a decent amount of attractive women at malls and in my experience, no one finds it that weird when you approach them in one as it’s a crowded public space.

Wherever You’re Already Going in Your Day to Day Life

Also very vague but essentially if you already are somewhere and you see a pretty girl you might as well approach her. It’s 5 minutes and you never know, it might just be your future wife. There aren’t really any downsides to this one.

Sexually Competitive Locations

These are likely going to be you’re bread and butter. These are the locations the general population thinks of as where you’re supposed to go meet people of the opposite sex. They are usually specifically designed to allow you to meet a lot of women quickly making them the easiest places to crank up the volume of women you meet.

Dating Apps

Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble in that order are in my opinion currently the easiest places to meet women in 2024. I have met more women I dated through these three apps than everywhere else combined. Over 50% of couples meet online nowadays and you’d be a fool to not take advantage of the current best options on the market for meeting women. They are very competitive having 3 men for every woman on the app but I think you’d be surprised at how few of those men have even ok pictures. I’ll make an article in future on how to make a good profile but it will be the greatest investment of your entire dating life.

Bars

Overall, I think your success in nightlife will be largely situation-dependent. Living close to a bar you are the appropriate age for will make this possibly your best option for meeting women, on the other hand, if you need to Uber 30 minutes away to get to anything remotely viable for meeting women you’re likely out of luck. In my experience meeting a woman in a night-life environment is relatively easy, getting the interaction any further than making out and a phone number that never returns your text is a different story though.

Likely due to the integration of alcohol, striking up a conversation is pretty easy in a bar(clubs not so much). The problem becomes making yourself memorable enough for her to text you back the next day. Getting a text back either requires sleeping together or a really really long conversation, which is tough to maintain due to friend group dynamics. I do think this is an option you should take advantage of if your logistics suit it but if not I think it’s a waste of time and money.

Clubs/Fraternity Parties(if you know the right people)

Similar to bars these two are very situation-dependent, this time it depends on who you know though.

Being in a frat or close friends with the guys in a frat will make frat parties a top-tier option for meeting women. Frat parties usually have good guy-to-girl ratios, lots of alcohol, and bedrooms just upstairs, making frat parties the casual hook-up epicentre of college campuses. Being part of a fraternity comes with its ups and downs but if you’re looking to meet women in college it’s a top-tier option.

Clubs are similar. You need to know people to have any success at clubs. You need to know the promoters, the bouncers, and most importantly where the after-parties are being held to have a good time in the clubbing scene. Otherwise, you’ll likely be stuck dancing with dudes to deafening music on a dirty dance floor. Again an elite option if you’re hooked into the scene, a terrible option if you’re not

Downside I’ve Noticed With Sexually Competitive Locations

This one might ruffle some feathers but in my experience, the women you meet at sexually competitive places are generally sluttier. Because they are where you go to meet people of the opposite sex. The women who go on average tend to like male attention more than less competitive locations. Not to say every girl you meet at a bar is a slut but it is something you should keep in mind if you want to find a more wholesome woman.

Conclusion

If you meet enough women it’s extremely unlikely you won’t experience some level of success in dating, whether you see that as finding a relationship or casual partners. This means optimizing the volume of women you talk to is usually the largest difference maker in your dating life.

The first thing I recommend to anyone struggling with dating is to pick a couple of these locations they like/are comfortable with and ramp up the volume you attend and approach the women there(going to a bar 7 times a week won’t do anything if you don’t approach anyone).

So before you get limb-lengthening surgery get the number of women you talk to up to at least 20 a week then re-evaluate whether you need to drop 80k on breaking your legs.